PSYCH 218: Psychology of Death and Dying
Christopher Burris
Estimated study time: 1 hr 4 min
Table of contents
Sources and References
Primary textbook — None assigned (readings-based course)
Supplementary texts — Kastenbaum, R. (2009). The Psychology of Death (3rd ed.). Springer; Masson, J. M., & McCarthy, S. (1995). When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals. Delta; Walsh, F., & McGoldrick, M. (Eds.). (1991). Living Beyond Loss: Death in the Family. W. W. Norton.
Online resources — OMEGA: Journal of Death and Dying (Sage); PubMed; Google Scholar; APA PsycNET
Assigned readings:
- Kastenbaum, R. (2009). The Psychology of Death (selected chapters).
- Masson, J. M., & McCarthy, S. (1995). When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals (selected chapters).
- Juhl, J., & Routledge, C. (2016). Putting the terror in terror management theory. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 25(2), 99–103.
- Stroebe, M., & Schut, H. (2020). The dual process model of coping with bereavement: A decade on and beyond. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- McKinley, C. E., Miller Scarnato, J., & Sanders, S. (2020). Why are so many Indigenous peoples dying and no one is paying attention? OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Gül, R. E., et al. (2020). Medicalization and end-of-life care. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Hovland, C. A., & Mallett, R. K. (2020). Attitudes toward euthanasia and physician-assisted dying. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- MacMurray, B., & Futtrell, R. (2020). Legal frameworks for death and dying. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Rumbold, B., et al. (2020). The relationship of palliative care with assisted dying. Journal of Pain and Symptom Management.
- Balmer, D., et al. (2020). Religious beliefs and death. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Pevey, C. F., Jones, T. J., & Yarber, A. (2009/2020). How religion comforts the dying. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying, 58(1), 19–30.
- Viper, M., et al. (2020). Death in the arts and media. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Khayambashi, S. (2019). Blood and guts in living color: A study of the internet death video community. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Kelmendi, K., et al. (2020). Meaning-making of war experiences: Stories from Kosova. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Leung, E., & Chalupa, A. (2015). Coping with imminent death: Thematic content analysis on narratives by Japanese soldiers in World War II. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Walsh, F., & McGoldrick, M. (1991). Loss and the family: A systemic perspective. In F. Walsh & M. McGoldrick (Eds.), Living Beyond Loss: Death in the Family. Norton.
- Manoogian, M. M., Vandenbroeke, J., Ringering, A., Toray, T., & Cooley, E. (2017). Emerging adults’ experiences of grandparent death. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Scheinfeld, E., & Lake, P. K. (2019). Why is it just so hard? Making sense of end-of-life communication between adult children and their terminally ill parental figures. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying, 83(3), 611–629.
- Mueller, A., et al. (2017). Death anxiety and personality. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
- Kang, S. (2019). Death anxiety and personality factors. OMEGA – Journal of Death and Dying.
Chapter 1: Introduction – Death and Its Study
The Psychology of Death and Dying as an Academic Discipline
The study of death, dying, and bereavement – sometimes referred to as thanatology (from the Greek thanatos, meaning death) – occupies a unique position within the psychological sciences. Unlike most subdisciplines, thanatology demands that scholars and students confront the most universal and yet most deeply personal of human realities: that every living thing will die, and that awareness of mortality profoundly shapes experience, motivation, and meaning.
This course, structured around Professor Christopher Burris’s “levels” framework, approaches the psychology of death and dying as a set of nested contexts. Beginning with the broadest biological realities and gradually narrowing toward the individual, each level illuminates a different dimension of how death is experienced, interpreted, and managed. The levels range from the animate (all living organisms) through species, human, historical/cultural, medical, legal, religious, arts/media, political, relational, and finally the individual (both developmental and personality-based perspectives).
Why Study Death Psychologically?
Psychology brings distinctive tools to the study of death. Whereas philosophy asks what death means and biology asks what death is, psychology asks how the awareness, anticipation, and experience of death shape thought, emotion, behavior, and identity. Psychological research on death encompasses:
- Cognitive dimensions: How do people conceptualize death? When and how do children acquire the concept of death’s irreversibility, universality, and nonfunctionality?
- Emotional dimensions: What emotional responses does death evoke – anxiety, grief, terror, acceptance, even relief? How do individuals regulate these emotions?
- Behavioral dimensions: How does awareness of mortality influence behavior, from risk-taking to prosocial action to cultural worldview defense?
- Social dimensions: How do interpersonal relationships shape and respond to experiences of death and bereavement?
Foundational Concepts
Historical Context of Death Studies
The systematic psychological study of death is a relatively recent phenomenon. Although philosophers have contemplated death since antiquity (Epicurus, the Stoics, existentialists such as Heidegger and Kierkegaard), psychology largely avoided the topic for much of the twentieth century. The modern psychology of death traces its formal origins to the mid-twentieth century, with key contributions from:
- Herman Feifel (1959), whose edited volume The Meaning of Death broke the silence within psychology and helped establish death as a legitimate topic for empirical investigation.
- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross (1969), whose On Death and Dying introduced the widely known (though often oversimplified) five-stage model of grief.
- Robert Kastenbaum, whose long career and founding editorship of OMEGA: Journal of Death and Dying helped institutionalize the field. Kastenbaum’s textbook The Psychology of Death (2009) provided a comprehensive synthesis of research across multiple levels of analysis, from biological to existential.
Kastenbaum argued that death cannot be understood through any single disciplinary lens. His work emphasized the concept of a death system – the network of people, places, times, objects, and symbols that a society uses to mediate between the living and the dead. Every society maintains a death system, though its elements vary dramatically across time and culture.
The Levels Framework
The “levels” framework organizes the course by moving from the most general to the most specific. Each level represents a context in which death acquires particular meanings, generates particular challenges, and is managed through particular psychological and social mechanisms:
| Level | Core Question |
|---|---|
| Animate | How do living organisms experience and respond to death? |
| Species | What evolutionary pressures has death exerted on our species? |
| Human | How does awareness of mortality shape human psychology? |
| Historical/Cultural | How have death meanings changed across time and culture? |
| Medical | How has the medicalization of death shaped the dying experience? |
| Legal | What legal frameworks govern death, dying, and the dead? |
| Religious | How do religious beliefs shape the experience of death? |
| Arts/Media | How is death represented and processed through creative expression? |
| Political | How is death used, memorialized, and contested politically? |
| Relational | How does death affect families and social networks? |
| Individual (Developmental) | How does the understanding of death develop across the lifespan? |
| Individual (Personality) | How do personality traits shape the experience of death anxiety? |
Chapter 2: The Animate Level – Death in the Living World
Death as a Biological Universal
At the most fundamental level, death is a biological event. Every living organism – from single-celled bacteria to the most complex multicellular creatures – faces the cessation of life processes. The animate level of analysis examines death as it occurs across the entire spectrum of living things, asking whether and how non-human organisms experience, anticipate, or respond to death.
Biological Perspectives on Death
From a biological standpoint, death serves essential ecological functions. It enables nutrient recycling, limits population size, and creates selective pressures that drive evolutionary change. Apoptosis – programmed cell death – is a normal and necessary process in the development and maintenance of multicellular organisms, illustrating that death is not merely an endpoint but an integral part of life itself.
Aging and Senescence
Senescence, the gradual deterioration of biological function with age, is widespread across species but not universal. Some organisms exhibit what biologists call negligible senescence – species such as certain tortoises, rockfish, and the hydra that show no measurable increase in mortality rate with age. Understanding these exceptions illuminates the evolved mechanisms of aging and death in other species.
Major theories of biological aging include:
- Evolutionary theories: Death and aging evolve because natural selection acts most strongly on traits that affect survival and reproduction during the reproductive years. Traits that are harmful only in later life are weakly selected against (Medawar’s mutation accumulation theory; Williams’s antagonistic pleiotropy theory).
- Telomere theory: Cellular replication is limited by the progressive shortening of telomeres, the protective caps on chromosomes. When telomeres become critically short, cells enter senescence or undergo apoptosis.
- Free radical and oxidative stress theories: Cumulative damage from reactive oxygen species contributes to cellular aging and death.
Animal Responses to Death
A central question at the animate level is whether non-human animals have any awareness of or emotional response to death. This question is both scientifically fascinating and philosophically fraught, because attributing subjective experience to other species requires careful inference from observable behavior.
Evidence from Masson and McCarthy (1995)
Jeffrey Moussaieff Masson and Susan McCarthy’s When Elephants Weep: The Emotional Lives of Animals (1995) marshaled extensive observational and anecdotal evidence that many animal species display behaviors suggesting emotional responses to death. Their work challenged the prevailing scientific orthodoxy that animal behavior could be fully explained without reference to subjective emotional states.
Key examples from their work and the broader literature include:
Elephants: Perhaps the most striking evidence of animal grief comes from elephant behavior. Elephants have been observed standing vigil over deceased companions, gently touching the body with their trunks, and returning repeatedly to the remains of dead family members. They may carry bones or tusks of the deceased for extended periods. These behaviors are difficult to explain without reference to some form of attachment and loss response.
Primates: Chimpanzees and other great apes display extended mourning behavior after the death of group members. Mothers have been observed carrying the bodies of dead infants for days or weeks. Social disruption follows the death of a high-ranking individual. Jane Goodall documented the case of a young chimpanzee, Flint, who appeared to die of grief shortly after his mother Flo’s death – ceasing to eat, withdrawing from social interaction, and dying within weeks.
Corvids: Crows and other corvids have been observed gathering around dead conspecifics in what researchers have termed “crow funerals.” While the functional significance of these gatherings may be partly informational (learning about sources of danger), the behavioral pattern is remarkable.
Cetaceans: Dolphins and whales have been observed carrying dead calves, sometimes for days. Grieving behavior, including reduced appetite and social withdrawal, has been documented in captive and wild cetaceans.
Domestic animals: Dogs and cats frequently show behavioral changes after the death of a companion animal or human caretaker, including changes in sleeping and eating patterns, vocalization, and social behavior.
The Continuum of Death Awareness
The evidence suggests a continuum of death-related awareness and response across species:
| Level of Response | Examples | Evidence |
|---|---|---|
| No observable response | Most invertebrates, fish | Death of conspecifics does not elicit distinct behavioral changes |
| Threat-avoidance response | Many vertebrates | Predator avoidance, alarm calls, flight from danger |
| Recognition of death in others | Elephants, corvids, cetaceans | Distinctive behavioral responses to dead conspecifics |
| Extended mourning-like behavior | Great apes, elephants, some canids | Prolonged behavioral disruption, vigil behavior, carrying of deceased |
| Anticipation of own death | Possibly great apes, humans | Behavioral changes prior to death (controversial in non-humans) |
Implications for Human Psychology
The animate level has several important implications for understanding human responses to death:
- Evolutionary continuity: If other species experience something like grief, then human grief may have deep evolutionary roots rather than being a purely cultural construction.
- Attachment as foundation: The intensity of grief responses across species appears to correlate with the strength of social bonds, suggesting that attachment is a fundamental precondition for grief.
- Death awareness as a spectrum: The question of whether animals “know” they will die remains open, but it is clear that the behavioral and possibly emotional foundations of death-related responding are not unique to humans.
Chapter 3: The Species Level – Evolutionary Perspectives on Death Awareness
Death and Human Evolution
At the species level, the focus shifts from death as a general biological phenomenon to the specific evolutionary pressures and adaptations that characterize human engagement with death. Humans are, as far as we know, the only species with full symbolic awareness of mortality – the capacity to represent death conceptually, to project their own death into the future, and to construct elaborate cultural systems for managing the psychological challenges this awareness creates.
The Evolution of Death Awareness
The emergence of death awareness in the human lineage is linked to the evolution of several cognitive capacities:
- Self-awareness: The ability to recognize oneself as a distinct entity persisting through time is a prerequisite for anticipating one’s own death. While some great apes show evidence of self-awareness (mirror self-recognition), the full temporal extension of self-awareness – projecting oneself into the past and future – appears to be predominantly human.
- Theory of mind: Understanding that others have mental states allows humans to comprehend what it means for another person to cease to exist.
- Symbolic thought and language: The capacity for symbolic representation allows humans to think about death abstractly, to categorize it, and to communicate about it.
- Temporal reasoning: The ability to think about the future and to understand cause-and-effect relationships enables humans to anticipate their own death even when it is not imminent.
Archaeological Evidence
Archaeological evidence suggests that concern with death emerged early in human evolution:
- Intentional burial: The earliest evidence of intentional burial dates to approximately 100,000 years ago among anatomically modern humans and possibly earlier among Neanderthals. Burial implies recognition of death as a significant event requiring a deliberate social response.
- Grave goods: The inclusion of tools, ornaments, food, and other objects in graves (evident from at least 30,000–40,000 years ago) suggests beliefs about an afterlife or at least a desire to care for the dead.
- Neanderthal burials: The contested evidence of Neanderthal burials at sites like Shanidar Cave (with possible flower offerings) raises questions about whether death awareness predates Homo sapiens.
Evolutionary Functions of Death Awareness
From an evolutionary perspective, awareness of death is a mixed blessing. It provides survival advantages (motivating caution, planning, and self-preservation) but also creates psychological challenges (existential anxiety, potential for paralyzing terror). Several frameworks attempt to explain how evolution shaped our relationship with mortality:
Predator-vigilance hypothesis: Early hominids who could anticipate lethal threats and take preventive action had survival advantages. Death awareness, in this view, is an extension of predator-avoidance mechanisms.
Social cohesion hypothesis: Shared mourning practices and death rituals may have strengthened group bonds, facilitating cooperation and mutual aid – traits that enhance group survival.
Cultural transmission hypothesis: The awareness that knowledge holders will die created pressure to develop systems for preserving and transmitting knowledge across generations, driving the development of language, ritual, and eventually writing.
Chapter 4: The Human Level – Terror Management Theory and Existential Psychology
The Existential Challenge of Mortality
At the human level, the focus narrows to the psychological consequences of full mortality awareness. Unlike other animals, humans must live with the continuous knowledge that they will die. This creates what existential philosophers have called the fundamental anxiety of human existence – a tension between the desire to live and the certainty of death.
Existential Philosophical Foundations
Several philosophical traditions inform the psychological study of death at the human level:
- Martin Heidegger distinguished between authentic and inauthentic modes of relating to death. In his analysis, most people flee from death awareness into the routines of everyday life (das Man – the “they-self”), but authentic existence requires confronting one’s own mortality (Being-toward-death).
- Soren Kierkegaard explored the existential anxiety that arises from freedom and finitude, arguing that confronting this anxiety is essential for genuine selfhood.
- Ernest Becker synthesized these philosophical insights with psychoanalytic theory in The Denial of Death (1973), arguing that the fear of death is the primary motivator of human behavior and that culture itself is fundamentally a defense against death anxiety.
Terror Management Theory
TMT was developed by Sheldon Solomon, Jeff Greenberg, and Tom Pyszczynski in the 1980s and has generated over 500 empirical studies across multiple countries and cultural contexts.
Core Propositions
The mortality salience hypothesis: If cultural worldviews and self-esteem serve as anxiety buffers against death awareness, then reminding people of their mortality (increasing mortality salience) should intensify their need for these buffers. This produces observable effects such as increased defense of one’s cultural worldview and derogation of those who threaten it.
The anxiety-buffer hypothesis: If self-esteem and worldview validation serve as buffers against death anxiety, then bolstering these should reduce the accessibility of death-related thoughts and the anxiety associated with death reminders.
The death-thought accessibility hypothesis: Threats to self-esteem or cultural worldview should increase the accessibility of death-related thoughts, because the anxiety buffer has been weakened.
Empirical Evidence
Hundreds of studies have tested TMT’s predictions. Typical mortality salience experiments ask participants to write about their own death or imagine dying, then measure subsequent attitudes and behaviors. Key findings include:
- Worldview defense: After mortality salience, people show increased favorability toward those who share their cultural worldview and increased hostility toward those who challenge it. This has been demonstrated with respect to national identity, religious beliefs, and political ideology.
- Self-esteem striving: Mortality salience increases efforts to bolster self-esteem, whether through achievement, social comparison, or identification with successful groups.
- Prejudice and aggression: Mortality salience can increase prejudice toward outgroups, support for military aggression, and harsher judgments of moral transgressors.
- Health behavior: Paradoxically, mortality salience can sometimes decrease health-protective behavior (e.g., reducing sunscreen use among people who derive self-esteem from tanning), because self-esteem motivations override health concerns.
- Prosocial behavior: Under some conditions, mortality salience increases charitable giving and prosocial behavior, particularly when such behavior is consistent with culturally valued identities.
Juhl and Routledge (2016): Putting the Terror in TMT
A significant critique of TMT was that, despite hundreds of studies demonstrating the downstream effects of mortality salience, relatively few studies had directly tested the core assertion that death awareness causes anxiety and undermines psychological well-being. Juhl and Routledge (2016) addressed this gap in their article “Putting the Terror in Terror Management Theory,” published in Current Directions in Psychological Science.
Their review of a program of research demonstrated that experimentally heightening death awareness does in fact increase anxiety and decrease well-being – but crucially, this occurs primarily among individuals who lack adequate psychological buffers. Individuals with high self-esteem, strong cultural worldview conviction, or secure attachment relationships were relatively protected from the anxiety-producing effects of mortality salience. This finding supports TMT’s central claim that self-esteem and worldview serve as anxiety buffers, not merely as correlates of reduced death concern.
- Provided direct evidence that death awareness causes anxiety (not just downstream defensive behaviors)
- Showed that the effect is moderated by the presence or absence of psychological buffers
- Strengthened the theoretical coherence of TMT by filling a critical empirical gap
Symbolic and Literal Immortality
TMT proposes that humans manage death terror through two forms of immortality striving:
- Literal immortality: Beliefs in an afterlife, reincarnation, resurrection, or spiritual continuation beyond physical death. These beliefs provide direct reassurance that death is not final.
- Symbolic immortality: The sense that one’s life has lasting significance through one’s contributions to culture, family, nation, or posterity. Having children, creating art, building institutions, or achieving fame can all serve as vehicles for symbolic immortality.
Meaning-Making and Death
Beyond TMT, other frameworks address the human-level response to mortality:
- Meaning management theory (Wong, 2008) proposes that humans cope with death not only through denial and defense but also through the active construction of meaning. Accepting death and integrating it into a coherent life narrative can produce what Wong calls “death acceptance” rather than “death denial.”
- Posttraumatic growth: Encounters with death – whether through personal illness, bereavement, or existential contemplation – can sometimes catalyze psychological growth, including deepened relationships, enhanced appreciation for life, and revised priorities.
Chapter 5: The Historical and Cultural Level
Death Across Time and Cultures
The meaning of death is never fixed. It varies dramatically across historical periods, cultural contexts, and social groups. At the historical and cultural level, the focus is on how death has been understood, ritualized, and managed differently across time and place, and how these variations shape individual psychological experience.
Historical Transformations in Death Attitudes
Historian Philippe Ariès identified several broad phases in Western attitudes toward death:
Tame death (early medieval period): Death was familiar, expected, and accepted as part of the natural order. The dying person typically knew death was approaching, made preparations, and died surrounded by community members, including children.
Death of the self (12th–15th centuries): Increasing emphasis on individual judgment and the fate of the soul after death. The ars moriendi (“art of dying”) literature provided guidance for achieving a good death.
Remote and imminent death (18th century): Death became more emotionally charged, with romantic idealization of the death of the other (especially the beloved). Mourning became more elaborate.
Forbidden death (20th century): Death was increasingly sequestered in hospitals, sanitized by professionals, and excluded from everyday discourse. Ariès argued that modern Western societies had developed a “death taboo” comparable in strength to the Victorian sex taboo.
Contemporary period: Some scholars argue that the late 20th and early 21st centuries have seen a partial return of death to public discourse, driven by the hospice movement, death-positive activism, and media saturation with death imagery.
Cross-Cultural Variation in Death Practices
Cultures differ enormously in their death-related beliefs, rituals, and social norms:
| Dimension | Range of Variation |
|---|---|
| Disposal of remains | Burial, cremation, sky burial, water burial, mummification, endocannibalism |
| Mourning duration | Days to years; prescribed or flexible |
| Emotional expression | Encouraged wailing to enforced stoicism |
| Afterlife beliefs | Annihilation, reincarnation, heaven/hell, ancestral realm, merger with universal spirit |
| Relationship with dead | Communication, ancestor veneration, avoidance, ongoing obligations |
| Social organization of dying | Community-based to institutional |
Stroebe and Schut (2020): The Dual Process Model in Cultural Context
Margaret Stroebe and Henk Schut’s Dual Process Model (DPM) of coping with bereavement, originally proposed in 1999, has become one of the most influential frameworks in bereavement research. Their 2020 work revisited the model with particular attention to cultural context and the challenges posed by the COVID-19 pandemic.
- Loss-oriented coping: Focused on processing the loss itself -- grief work, emotional processing, dwelling on the deceased, and working through the meaning of the loss.
- Restoration-oriented coping: Focused on the secondary consequences of loss -- attending to life changes, developing new identities, mastering tasks previously handled by the deceased, and building new relationships.
The DPM was specifically designed to address limitations of earlier bereavement models, particularly the assumption that “grief work” – the deliberate cognitive and emotional processing of the loss – is universally necessary and beneficial. Cross-cultural research had demonstrated that this assumption reflected Western, and particularly Northern European, cultural norms rather than universal psychological truths.
Key cultural considerations highlighted by Stroebe and Schut:
- In some East Asian cultures, continuing bonds with the deceased (through ancestor veneration, ritual feeding, and ongoing communication) are normative and adaptive, whereas Western bereavement traditions have historically emphasized “letting go.”
- The balance between loss-orientation and restoration-orientation may differ by gender, with many Western studies finding that women tend toward greater loss-orientation and men toward greater restoration-orientation – though these patterns vary by culture.
- The COVID-19 pandemic disrupted both loss-oriented and restoration-oriented coping by preventing normal funeral rituals, isolating the bereaved from social support, and creating additional restoration-oriented stressors (economic disruption, role overload).
McKinley, Miller Scarnato, and Sanders (2020): Indigenous Experiences of Death and Loss
Catherine McKinley and colleagues (2020) examined the experiences of death and loss among Indigenous peoples, using a mixed-methods approach informed by the Framework of Historical Oppression, Resilience, and Transcendence (FHORT). Their research, conducted with 287 female participants from two Southeastern tribes, revealed several important themes:
- Historical loss: Indigenous peoples have experienced devastating rates of death and loss through colonization, forced relocation, epidemic disease, and ongoing health disparities. These historical losses continue to reverberate through subsequent generations as historical trauma.
- Mortality disparities: Indigenous communities face disproportionately high rates of mortality from chronic diseases, accidents, suicide, and substance abuse – disparities rooted in historical and structural factors.
- Depressive symptoms and grief: The study documented significant associations between recent loss of loved ones and depressive symptoms, contextualized within a broader framework of cumulative loss.
- Resilience and cultural resources: Despite these challenges, participants identified cultural practices, spiritual beliefs, community connections, and intergenerational knowledge as sources of resilience.
The “Good Death” Across Cultures
The concept of a good death varies significantly across cultural contexts. Common dimensions include:
- Pain and symptom management: Minimizing physical suffering is nearly universal but may be weighted differently relative to other values.
- Awareness and preparation: Some cultures value conscious awareness of approaching death; others prioritize shielding the dying person from knowledge of their prognosis.
- Social presence: Dying surrounded by family is valued in many cultures, though the specific composition of “family” varies.
- Spiritual readiness: In religious cultures, spiritual preparation (confession, last rites, prayer) may be paramount.
- Autonomy and control: Western bioethics emphasizes individual autonomy in end-of-life decisions, a value not universally shared.
- Completion of social tasks: Saying goodbye, resolving conflicts, and distributing possessions or responsibilities.
Chapter 6: The Medical Level
The Medicalization of Death
The medical level examines how the rise of modern medicine has transformed the experience of dying and the meaning of death. Over the past two centuries, death has shifted from being primarily a domestic, community, and religious event to one managed largely by medical professionals in institutional settings.
Historical Transformation
Before the 20th century, most people in Western societies died at home, surrounded by family, attended by community members, and prepared for death through religious ritual. The medical profession played a relatively minor role. Several developments changed this:
- Advances in medical technology: The development of antibiotics, surgery, mechanical ventilation, and other life-sustaining technologies created new possibilities for prolonging life – and new questions about when to stop.
- Hospitalization of death: By the mid-20th century, the majority of deaths in developed nations occurred in hospitals. The dying person was removed from the familiar home environment and placed in an institutional setting oriented toward cure rather than comfort.
- Professionalization of death care: The care of the dead body shifted from families and community members to funeral directors and embalmers, further distancing ordinary people from the reality of death.
The Medicalization Critique
Key critiques of the medicalization of death include:
- Technological imperative: The availability of life-sustaining technology creates pressure to use it, even when it may not serve the patient’s interests or wishes. This can lead to prolonged, uncomfortable dying processes in intensive care units.
- Loss of agency: In medicalized settings, the dying person may lose control over their own death, with decisions made by physicians, hospital protocols, or family members rather than the patient.
- Emotional and spiritual neglect: Medical environments oriented toward cure may inadequately address the emotional, psychological, and spiritual needs of the dying person and their family.
- Death as failure: Within a medical paradigm oriented toward cure, death is implicitly framed as a failure of treatment rather than a natural part of life.
End-of-Life Care Models
In response to the limitations of medicalized death, several alternative models have emerged:
Palliative Care
Hospice Care
The hospice movement, founded by Dame Cicely Saunders in the 1960s, represented a direct challenge to the medicalization of death. Saunders introduced the concept of total pain – the idea that suffering at the end of life is not merely physical but encompasses emotional, social, and spiritual dimensions, all of which require attention.
Euthanasia and Physician-Assisted Dying
The medicalization of death has also raised fundamental questions about the proper limits of medical intervention at the end of life. The course readings by Gül et al. (2020) and Hovland and Mallett (2020) address attitudes toward and practices of medically hastened death.
Key psychological dimensions of the euthanasia and PAD debate include:
- Attitudes: Public attitudes toward euthanasia and PAD have been shifting, with growing acceptance in many Western nations. However, attitudes vary significantly by age, religiosity, cultural background, and personal experience with terminal illness.
- Motivations: Research suggests that the desire for euthanasia or PAD is motivated less by pain and more by loss of autonomy, loss of dignity, and fear of being a burden to others.
- Psychological impact on physicians: Studies have found that physicians who participate in euthanasia or PAD may experience emotional distress, moral conflict, and a shift in professional identity.
- Slippery slope concerns: Critics worry that legalizing PAD may lead to expanded eligibility criteria, pressure on vulnerable populations, and a weakening of the commitment to palliative care.
Death Doulas and Alternative Approaches
The emergence of death doulas (or end-of-life doulas) represents another response to the medicalization of death. Death doulas provide non-medical support to dying individuals and their families, including emotional support, practical planning, legacy projects, and spiritual care. Their role reflects a growing movement to reclaim death as a human experience rather than a purely medical event.
Chapter 7: The Legal Level
Legal Frameworks for Death and Dying
The legal level examines how societies define death in law, regulate the dying process, and address the rights and responsibilities of the dying, their families, and medical professionals. Legal frameworks both reflect and shape cultural attitudes toward death.
Legal Definitions of Death
The legal definition of death has evolved significantly with advances in medical technology:
The shift from cardiopulmonary to brain-death criteria was driven in part by the needs of organ transplantation: declaring death by neurological criteria allowed organ procurement from patients on ventilators whose organs were still being perfused. This created ethical debates about the relationship between brain death and “real” death, the interests of potential organ recipients, and the adequacy of neurological criteria for capturing the essence of death.
Advance Directives and End-of-Life Planning
Research on advance directives has revealed several psychological and practical challenges:
- Low completion rates: Despite widespread availability, only a minority of adults in most countries have completed advance directives. Barriers include discomfort with thinking about death, perceived irrelevance (particularly among younger and healthier individuals), and lack of information.
- Prediction errors: People are often poor predictors of their future treatment preferences. Studies show that preferences can change dramatically in response to illness, adaptation, and changing circumstances.
- Communication gaps: Even when advance directives exist, they may not be communicated to relevant health care providers or family members.
- Cultural variation: Advance directive completion rates and attitudes vary by cultural group, with some cultures placing greater emphasis on family-based decision-making rather than individual autonomy.
Assisted Dying Legislation
The legal landscape of assisted dying varies dramatically across jurisdictions:
| Jurisdiction | Legal Status (as of course offering, 2021) |
|---|---|
| Netherlands | Euthanasia and PAD legal since 2002 |
| Belgium | Euthanasia legal since 2002, including minors since 2014 |
| Canada (MAiD) | Legal since 2016, expanded to include non-terminal conditions |
| Oregon, USA | PAD legal since 1997 (Death with Dignity Act) |
| Switzerland | Assisted suicide legal (not euthanasia) |
| Australia (Victoria) | Voluntary assisted dying legal since 2019 |
MacMurray and Futtrell (2020) examined the evolving legal frameworks governing death and dying, including the tension between individual autonomy and state interests in preserving life. Their analysis highlighted how legal definitions of death, capacity, and consent shape the lived experience of dying.
Rumbold et al. (2020) conducted a systematic scoping review of the relationship between palliative care and assisted dying in jurisdictions where assisted dying is lawful. Their review identified a range of relationships – from synergistic and cooperative to opposed and conflicted – underscoring that these two approaches to end-of-life care are not necessarily in opposition but can coexist in various configurations.
Chapter 8: The Religious Level
Religion, Spirituality, and Death
Religious and spiritual beliefs have historically been among the most powerful frameworks for making meaning of death. The religious level examines how faith traditions shape beliefs about what happens after death, how the dying should be cared for, and how grief should be expressed and managed.
Afterlife Beliefs
The vast majority of the world’s religious traditions include some form of belief in continued existence after physical death. These beliefs vary enormously:
- Christianity: Belief in resurrection of the body, judgment, heaven, and hell. Emphasis on the redemptive meaning of suffering and the promise of eternal life through faith.
- Islam: Similar emphasis on resurrection, judgment, paradise (Jannah), and hellfire (Jahannam). Elaborate funeral rites including ritual washing, shrouding, and burial facing Mecca.
- Hinduism: Belief in reincarnation (samsara) governed by the law of karma. Death is understood as a transition rather than an ending, with the goal of eventual liberation (moksha) from the cycle of rebirth.
- Buddhism: Reincarnation within the framework of interdependent arising; the ultimate goal is liberation from suffering (nirvana). Death is an important opportunity for spiritual practice.
- Judaism: Diverse views on afterlife; emphasis on living a righteous life in the present. Elaborate mourning practices (shiva, kaddish) that structure the grief process.
- Indigenous and animist traditions: Often emphasize the continued presence of ancestors, the permeability of the boundary between living and dead, and the importance of maintaining proper relationships with deceased spirits.
Psychological Functions of Religious Beliefs About Death
Research in the psychology of religion has identified several mechanisms through which religious beliefs may help individuals cope with death:
- Meaning-making: Religious frameworks provide explanations for why death occurs, what it means, and what follows – reducing the existential uncertainty that death creates.
- Afterlife as anxiety buffer: Belief in literal immortality directly addresses the fundamental terror identified by TMT. Research has shown that religious afterlife beliefs decrease behavioral avoidance of mortality symbols and reduce death anxiety in many (though not all) contexts.
- Religious coping behaviors: Prayer, scripture reading, ritual participation, and religious community involvement provide both cognitive and social resources for managing death-related distress.
- Social support: Religious communities often provide structured support for the dying and the bereaved, through visitation, meal provision, funeral rites, and ongoing memorial practices.
Pevey, Jones, and Yarber: How Religion Comforts the Dying
Carolyn Pevey and colleagues studied how religion provides comfort to dying individuals through qualitative interviews with 38 hospice patients. Their research identified four primary mechanisms by which religion comforts the dying:
- Relational comfort: Religion offers a sense of being in relationship with God, a higher power, or a spiritual community, reducing the sense of isolation that can accompany dying.
- Hope of life after death: The belief that death is not the end provides reassurance and reduces fear. For many participants, the afterlife was imagined as a reunion with deceased loved ones.
- Identification: Participants found comfort in identifying with religious figures who had suffered and died – most prominently, for Christian participants, the suffering and resurrection of Jesus.
- Cosmic order: The belief that the universe is governed by a benevolent and meaningful order helped participants make sense of their suffering and accept their mortality.
Religion and Bereavement
Religious beliefs and practices also shape the experience of bereavement. Research findings include:
- Positive religious coping (seeking spiritual support, benevolent religious reappraisals, collaborative coping with God) is generally associated with better bereavement outcomes, including lower depression and greater posttraumatic growth.
- Negative religious coping (feeling punished by God, questioning God’s love, interpersonal religious discontent) is associated with poorer outcomes, including greater distress and complicated grief.
- Afterlife beliefs and grief: The relationship between afterlife beliefs and grief outcomes is complex. While strong afterlife beliefs can provide comfort, they may also create distress if the bereaved is uncertain about the deceased’s spiritual fate (e.g., concern that the deceased may not be in heaven).
Balmer et al. (2020): Religious Beliefs and Death
Balmer and colleagues (2020) explored the intersection of religious beliefs and attitudes toward death. Their research highlighted how specific religious beliefs – particularly beliefs about the afterlife, divine judgment, and the meaning of suffering – shape both the experience of dying and the process of bereavement. Their work emphasized the heterogeneity of religious experience: even within a single religious tradition, individuals hold diverse and sometimes contradictory beliefs about death, and these beliefs interact with personality, life experience, and the specific circumstances of the death.
Chapter 9: The Arts and Media Level
Death in Literature, Film, and Media
The arts and media level examines how death is represented, processed, and communicated through creative and mass media. Art, literature, film, music, and digital media serve as vehicles for exploring, confronting, and sometimes domesticating the reality of death.
Death in Literature and Art
Death has been among the most enduring themes in human creative expression:
- Epic literature: From the Epic of Gilgamesh (in which the hero’s quest is driven by grief and fear of death) through Homer’s Iliad and Dante’s Divine Comedy, death has been central to narrative meaning-making.
- The Danse Macabre: The medieval artistic tradition of depicting Death as a skeletal figure leading people of all social stations in a dance, emphasizing death’s universality and democracy.
- Memento mori: The artistic and philosophical tradition of reminding viewers of their mortality, often through paintings of skulls, wilting flowers, or hourglasses.
- Romantic and Victorian death poetry: Poets such as Keats, Shelley, Tennyson, and Dickinson explored death with both dread and fascination, contributing to a cultural aestheticization of death.
- Contemporary literature: Works such as Joan Didion’s The Year of Magical Thinking, Paul Kalanithi’s When Breath Becomes Air, and Caitlin Doughty’s Smoke Gets in Your Eyes represent a growing genre of death memoir and death-positive literature.
Death in Film and Television
Film and television have become primary vehicles through which contemporary audiences encounter and process representations of death:
- Genre conventions: Different genres treat death differently. Horror uses death to generate fear and excitement; war films may use it to convey heroism or the futility of conflict; dramas may use it to explore emotional depth and relational dynamics.
- Sanitization and spectacularization: Critics note a paradox in media representations of death: violent death is frequently depicted (often spectacularly), while natural death, dying processes, and grief are relatively underrepresented.
- Impact on attitudes: Exposure to media representations of death can influence attitudes toward death, dying, and bereavement. Repeated exposure to violent death in media may desensitize viewers, while exposure to realistic portrayals of dying and grief may increase empathy and death acceptance.
Digital Media and Death
The digital age has created new contexts for encountering, processing, and commemorating death:
- Online memorialization: Social media platforms have become sites for mourning, memorialization, and ongoing connection with the deceased. Facebook “memorial pages,” digital memorials, and online grief communities represent new forms of continuing bonds with the dead.
- Viral death: The instant global dissemination of death imagery – from war zones, terrorist attacks, and police violence – raises questions about desensitization, vicarious trauma, and the ethics of viewing.
- Death video communities: Khayambashi (2019) investigated the phenomenon of internet death video communities in “Blood and Guts in Living Color.” His research examined online communities that form around the viewing and sharing of uncensored death videos, exploring the motivations, norms, and social dynamics of these communities. The rise of new media has enabled individuals to witness death directly, unmediated by journalistic gatekeeping, creating communities of viewers who seek out and share graphic content depicting actual deaths.
Viper et al. (2020): Death in the Arts and Media
Viper and colleagues (2020) examined how the arts and media serve as vehicles for processing death-related themes. Their work highlighted the dual potential of media representations: on one hand, artistic and media portrayals of death can facilitate meaning-making, emotional processing, and death acceptance; on the other, they can trivialize, sensationalize, or distort the reality of death. The study emphasized the importance of context, genre, and audience reception in determining the psychological impact of death-related media.
Art Therapy and Creative Expression in End-of-Life Care
Art-based interventions have been increasingly used in palliative and hospice care settings:
- Art therapy: Creating visual art, music, or writing can help dying individuals express emotions that are difficult to verbalize, process their experience, and create legacies.
- Music therapy: Music interventions in end-of-life care have been shown to reduce anxiety, pain, and depression while improving quality of life.
- Narrative approaches: Life review, legacy projects, and ethical wills allow dying individuals to create meaning through storytelling and personal reflection.
Chapter 10: The Political Level
Death and Politics
The political level examines how death is used, contested, and commemorated in political life. Death is not merely a private experience; it is deeply embedded in political structures, ideologies, and power relations. States kill, states commemorate, states regulate death, and political movements harness the symbolic power of death to mobilize action.
State-Sanctioned Death
States exercise power over death in multiple ways:
- Capital punishment: The death penalty represents the state’s ultimate exercise of sovereignty over life and death. Attitudes toward capital punishment vary dramatically across cultures and correlate with political ideology, religiosity, and beliefs about justice and deterrence.
- War and military death: States send citizens to die in war, commemorating their deaths through monuments, ceremonies, and national narratives. The political framing of military death – as heroic sacrifice, tragic waste, or necessary cost – has profound psychological implications for both soldiers and civilians.
- Structural violence: Sociologist Johan Galtung’s concept of structural violence highlights how political and economic structures cause premature death through poverty, inequality, lack of health care, and environmental degradation – deaths that are often invisible or naturalized.
Memorialization and Collective Memory
How societies remember and commemorate the dead is a deeply political process:
- War memorials: Memorials to the war dead serve multiple psychological and political functions – honoring sacrifice, affirming national identity, justifying past conflicts, and providing a focus for collective grief. The design and placement of memorials are often contested.
- Genocide memorialization: Memorials to genocide victims (the Holocaust, the Rwandan genocide, the Armenian genocide) serve to educate, to prevent recurrence, and to provide recognition for victims. They also raise difficult questions about whose suffering is remembered and whose is forgotten.
- Truth and reconciliation: In post-conflict societies, processes of truth-telling, justice, and reconciliation aim to address the psychological and political legacy of mass death.
Kelmendi et al. (2020): Meaning-Making of War Experiences
Kaltrina Kelmendi and colleagues (2020) explored meaning-making among individuals in Kosovo who experienced war-related loss. Using qualitative methods, their research examined how survivors constructed narratives of their experiences, finding themes of resilience, posttraumatic growth, and the role of cultural and community resources in coping with war-related bereavement. Their work highlighted how political violence – including state-perpetrated killing, ethnic cleansing, and war – creates bereavement experiences that are qualitatively different from peacetime losses, requiring attention to trauma, injustice, and the political dimensions of grief.
Leung and Chalupa (2015): Coping with Imminent Death in Wartime
Enoch Leung and Amanda Chalupa (2015) analyzed narratives from Japanese kamikaze soldiers during World War II, examining how these young men coped with the knowledge that their death was imminent and deliberately chosen by their military superiors. Through thematic content analysis of diary entries and letters, the researchers identified coping strategies including:
- Ideological commitment: Framing one’s death as a meaningful sacrifice for the nation.
- Aesthetic and literary expression: Many kamikaze soldiers were university students who used poetry and philosophical reflection to process their impending death.
- Emotional suppression and acceptance: Some narratives showed a gradual shift from terror to resignation to a form of acceptance.
- Connection with family: Letters to family members served as both emotional processing and legacy creation.
This study illustrates the intersection of political ideology, cultural values, and individual psychology in shaping responses to death. The kamikaze experience represents an extreme case of politically motivated death, but it illuminates broader questions about how political and ideological commitments shape the meaning individuals assign to their own mortality.
Death and Political Mobilization
Death serves as a powerful catalyst for political action:
- Martyrdom: The death of a political figure or ordinary citizen can be politically transformed into martyrdom, galvanizing movements and legitimating political causes.
- Terrorism: The deliberate infliction of death on civilians is used to create fear, disrupt social order, and attract attention to political causes.
- Mourning as protest: Public mourning can function as a form of political protest, particularly in repressive contexts where other forms of expression are suppressed.
Chapter 11: The Relational Level
Grief, Bereavement, and Family Systems
The relational level examines how death affects and is affected by interpersonal relationships, with particular attention to the family system. Grief is not merely an individual psychological experience; it occurs within and is shaped by a web of social relationships.
Foundational Concepts in Bereavement
Models of Grief
The psychological understanding of grief has evolved significantly over the past century:
Stage Models
Elisabeth Kübler-Ross’s (1969) five-stage model – denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance – is the most widely known framework for understanding grief. Originally developed in the context of terminal illness (the patient’s response to their own diagnosis), it was later applied to bereavement more broadly. While influential in raising public awareness, the stage model has been criticized for:
- Implying a linear, predictable progression that does not match most people’s experience
- Suggesting that failure to pass through all stages indicates pathology
- Lacking strong empirical support as a sequential model
Task Models
J. William Worden (1982, 2009) proposed a task model of grief that emphasizes active coping:
- Accept the reality of the loss: Overcoming denial and acknowledging that the person is dead and will not return.
- Process the pain of grief: Allowing oneself to experience the full range of grief emotions rather than suppressing or avoiding them.
- Adjust to a world without the deceased: Adapting to the practical, social, and existential changes caused by the loss.
- Find an enduring connection with the deceased while embarking on a new life: Maintaining an appropriate bond with the deceased while reinvesting in living.
The Dual Process Model (Stroebe and Schut)
As discussed in Chapter 5, the DPM represents the most empirically supported contemporary model of bereavement coping, emphasizing oscillation between loss-oriented and restoration-oriented processes.
Continuing Bonds
Dennis Klass, Phyllis Silverman, and Steven Nickman (1996) challenged the longstanding assumption (rooted in Freud’s concept of “grief work”) that healthy mourning requires severing emotional ties with the deceased. The continuing bonds framework proposes that maintaining an ongoing internal relationship with the deceased is normative and often adaptive. This may take forms such as:
- Sensing the deceased’s presence
- Talking to the deceased
- Drawing on the deceased’s values or advice when making decisions
- Keeping meaningful possessions
- Visiting the gravesite or memorial
Walsh and McGoldrick (1991): Loss and the Family System
Froma Walsh and Monica McGoldrick’s (1991) edited volume Living Beyond Loss: Death in the Family provided a foundational framework for understanding death within the context of family systems. Their work drew on family therapy theory to examine how loss reverberates through the entire family system, not just through individual family members.
Key principles from Walsh and McGoldrick’s family systems perspective on loss:
Loss affects the entire family system: When a family member dies, the loss disrupts the family’s established patterns of interaction, roles, and relationships. Every member of the family is affected, though in different ways.
Timing in the family life cycle matters: The impact of a death depends on when it occurs in the family’s developmental trajectory. The death of a young child, for example, creates different systemic disruptions than the death of an elderly grandparent. Particularly disruptive are:
- Off-time deaths: Deaths that violate developmental expectations (e.g., a child dying before a parent)
- Deaths during family transitions: Losses that coincide with other major changes (e.g., a death during adolescent separation, retirement, or the birth of a new child)
- Pile-up of losses: Multiple losses in a short period that overwhelm the family’s coping resources
Family communication patterns shape grief: Open communication about the loss, the deceased, and family members’ grief experiences generally facilitates adaptation. Conversely, family rules that prohibit talking about the death, expressing certain emotions, or acknowledging the loss create barriers to healthy grieving.
Family roles and functioning reorganize after loss: The death of a family member requires redistribution of the practical and emotional functions that person performed. When a primary breadwinner dies, the family must reorganize economically. When a family’s emotional caretaker dies, other members must take on those functions. When a child loses a parent, remaining adults must adjust their roles.
Multigenerational patterns: Families develop characteristic ways of dealing with loss that are transmitted across generations. These patterns include:
- Family scripts: Implicit rules about how grief should be expressed, how long mourning should last, and what topics are permissible
- Anniversary reactions: Heightened emotional responses that coincide with the anniversary of a loss, sometimes across multiple generations
- Replacement dynamics: The tendency to assign the characteristics or role of the deceased to another family member (e.g., a child born shortly after a family death may be treated as a “replacement child”)
Complicated Grief
While most bereaved individuals adapt to loss over time, a significant minority (approximately 7–10%) experience prolonged and debilitating grief that does not resolve with time.
Risk factors for complicated grief include:
- The nature of the death (sudden, violent, or stigmatized deaths carry higher risk)
- The quality of the relationship with the deceased (ambivalent or dependent relationships)
- Lack of social support
- Prior mental health difficulties
- Multiple concurrent losses
- The centrality of the deceased to the bereaved person’s identity
Disenfranchised Grief
Chapter 12: The Individual Level – Developmental Perspectives
Death Understanding Across the Lifespan
The developmental perspective examines how the understanding of and response to death changes across the lifespan. From the earliest glimmerings of death awareness in childhood through the unique challenges of aging and facing one’s own mortality, development shapes every aspect of the death experience.
Children’s Understanding of Death
Research has identified several subcomponents of the death concept that children acquire gradually:
Irreversibility: The understanding that death is permanent and cannot be undone. Young children (typically under age 5) may believe that death is temporary or reversible, like sleep or a journey.
Universality: The understanding that all living things die. Young children may believe that death happens only to certain people (old people, bad people, or strangers) and that they and their loved ones are exempt.
Nonfunctionality: The understanding that all life-defining functions (breathing, thinking, feeling, moving) cease at death. Young children may attribute continued experience to the dead (e.g., believing that a dead person can still feel cold or hungry).
Causality: The understanding of what causes death (biological processes, disease, injury). Young children may have magical or animistic explanations for death.
The acquisition of these subcomponents generally follows a developmental trajectory:
| Age Range | Typical Understanding |
|---|---|
| Under 3 | Limited or no concept of death; may notice absence |
| 3–5 | Death is temporary, reversible; the dead retain some functions |
| 5–7 | Emerging understanding of irreversibility and universality; may still be partial |
| 7–10 | Mature understanding of most subcomponents; death is irreversible, universal, caused by biological processes |
| Adolescence | Abstract and philosophical understanding; existential concerns emerge |
These developmental patterns interact with experience: children who have experienced the death of a family member, pet, or peer may develop a more mature death concept earlier than their age-typical peers.
Adolescence and Emerging Adulthood
Adolescence and emerging adulthood bring distinctive challenges to the encounter with death:
- Identity formation: Erikson’s framework positions identity as the central developmental task of adolescence. Encounters with death during this period can disrupt identity development or, conversely, catalyze more mature identity formation.
- Cognitive development: The capacity for formal operational thought enables abstract reasoning about death, existential reflection, and philosophical engagement with mortality.
- Risk-taking: Adolescents engage in more risk-taking behavior than other age groups. Some theorists connect this to a sense of personal invulnerability – the belief that “it can’t happen to me” – though research suggests this is a simplification.
- Grief in adolescence: Adolescent grief is complicated by developmental needs for autonomy, peer belonging, and identity exploration. Adolescents may grieve differently than adults, with more intermittent expressions and greater reliance on peer support.
Manoogian et al. (2017): Emerging Adults and Grandparent Death
Margaret Manoogian and colleagues (2017) examined the experience of grandparent death among 74 emerging adults enrolled in college. Their research illuminated several important developmental dynamics:
- Death trajectory: Whether the grandparent’s death was sudden or followed a prolonged illness affected how participants processed the loss. Anticipated deaths sometimes allowed for preparation and farewell, while sudden deaths created shock and unfinished business.
- Level of attachment: The emotional closeness of the grandchild-grandparent relationship was a strong predictor of grief intensity. Participants who had especially close relationships with their grandparents experienced more profound grief.
- Role in the family system: The grandchild’s position and role within the family system shaped their experience of the loss. Some grandchildren served as caregivers, some as family liaisons, and some were geographically or emotionally distant.
- Life course transitions: Grandparent death often served as a catalyst for life course transitions, motivating emerging adults to reassess their priorities, deepen family connections, and confront their own mortality for the first time.
- Meaning and ritual: New death experiences created opportunities for meaning-making and the development of personal grief rituals, which emerging adults used to integrate the loss into their evolving sense of self.
Scheinfeld and Lake (2019): End-of-Life Communication Between Adult Children and Parents
Emily Scheinfeld and Pamela Lake (2019) examined the lived experience of adult children communicating with their terminally ill parents about death and dying. Through qualitative analysis, they identified six themes that characterize this difficult communication:
- Protection: Both adult children and dying parents engage in protective behavior, shielding each other from the full emotional weight of the situation. Adult children may avoid discussing death to protect the parent; parents may minimize their symptoms to protect the child.
- Meeting needs: Communication is shaped by the practical and emotional needs of both parties, which may be in tension.
- Guilt and regret: Adult children frequently report guilt about not communicating enough, not saying the right things, or not being present enough during the dying process.
- Control: Issues of control permeate end-of-life communication – control over information, decisions, emotional expression, and the dying process itself.
- Family dynamics: Pre-existing family communication patterns, sibling relationships, and family roles all shape end-of-life communication.
- Communication type: The mode and style of communication (direct versus indirect, verbal versus nonverbal, frequent versus sporadic) affect the quality of the end-of-life relationship.
Midlife and Older Adulthood
As individuals age, their relationship with death shifts:
- Increasing proximity to death: With age, death becomes statistically more imminent and increasingly salient as peers, partners, and family members die.
- Generativity and legacy: Erikson’s concept of generativity – concern for guiding and caring for the next generation – may provide a vehicle for symbolic immortality in midlife and beyond.
- Ego integrity vs. despair: In Erikson’s final developmental stage, older adults face the task of reviewing their life and achieving a sense of ego integrity – acceptance of one’s life as having been meaningful. Failure to achieve this results in despair and, potentially, heightened death anxiety.
- Paradox of death anxiety in aging: Despite increasing proximity to death, many older adults report lower death anxiety than younger adults. This may reflect greater ego integrity, spiritual development, or a shift in temporal perspective (socioemotional selectivity theory).
Chapter 13: The Individual Level – Personality and Death Anxiety
Individual Differences in Death Anxiety
The final level of analysis examines how personality traits, individual psychological characteristics, and life history shape the experience of death anxiety and death-related attitudes. While death is universal, responses to it are highly variable, and personality psychology helps explain this variation.
Conceptualizing Death Anxiety
Death anxiety is a multidimensional construct that encompasses several distinguishable components:
- Fear of death itself: Anxiety about the state of being dead – nonexistence, the unknown.
- Fear of the dying process: Anxiety about pain, loss of control, dependence, and suffering.
- Fear for significant others: Anxiety about the impact of one’s death on loved ones.
- Fear of the unknown: Anxiety about what, if anything, follows death.
- Fear of premature death: Anxiety about dying before achieving important goals or fulfilling responsibilities.
Measurement of Death Anxiety
Several scales have been developed to assess death anxiety:
Personality Correlates of Death Anxiety
Research has identified several personality dimensions that predict individual differences in death anxiety:
The Big Five Personality Traits
| Trait | Relationship with Death Anxiety |
|---|---|
| Neuroticism | Strongest positive predictor; individuals high in neuroticism report higher death anxiety |
| Extraversion | Generally weak or negative association; extraverts may have slightly lower death anxiety |
| Openness to experience | Mixed findings; openness may facilitate both deeper existential reflection and greater acceptance |
| Agreeableness | Weak or no consistent association |
| Conscientiousness | Weak negative association; conscientious individuals may derive security from planning and preparation |
Self-Esteem and Death Anxiety
Consistent with TMT, higher self-esteem is associated with lower death anxiety. Self-esteem appears to serve as a buffer against the existential threat of mortality, with individuals who feel they are valuable contributors to a meaningful world experiencing less terror at the prospect of death.
Locus of Control
Individuals with an internal locus of control (the belief that one can influence outcomes through one’s own actions) tend to report lower death anxiety than those with an external locus of control. This may reflect a sense of agency and mastery that extends to existential concerns.
Attachment Style
Attachment theory, originally developed by John Bowlby in the context of infant-caregiver relationships, has been applied to death anxiety:
- Secure attachment is associated with lower death anxiety, potentially because securely attached individuals have internalized a sense of safety and trust that extends to existential concerns.
- Anxious attachment is associated with higher death anxiety, possibly reflecting a generalized tendency toward worry and vigilance.
- Avoidant attachment may be associated with suppressed but accessible death anxiety – individuals may deny death concerns at an explicit level while showing elevated death-thought accessibility on implicit measures.
Mueller et al. (2017) and Kang (2019): Personality and Death Anxiety
Mueller and colleagues (2017) examined the relationship between personality dimensions and death anxiety, contributing to a growing literature demonstrating that individual differences in how people respond to mortality are not random but are systematically related to enduring personality characteristics. Their work reinforced the finding that neuroticism is the strongest personality predictor of death anxiety, while also identifying potential moderating factors such as meaning in life and social support.
Kang (2019) extended this line of research by examining additional personality factors and their interaction with death anxiety. This work highlighted the importance of considering personality not as a static predictor but as a dynamic system that interacts with situational factors, developmental stage, and cultural context to shape the individual’s relationship with mortality.
Death Acceptance
While much research has focused on death anxiety, a complementary literature examines death acceptance – the capacity to face death with equanimity rather than dread. Wong (2008) identified three forms of death acceptance:
- Neutral acceptance: Viewing death as a natural, inevitable part of life – neither welcomed nor feared.
- Approach acceptance: Looking forward to death because of beliefs about a positive afterlife.
- Escape acceptance: Viewing death as a welcome escape from a life of pain and suffering.
Research suggests that death acceptance is not simply the absence of death anxiety but a distinct psychological orientation associated with:
- Greater meaning in life
- Higher psychological well-being
- Stronger religious or spiritual commitments (particularly for approach acceptance)
- Greater life satisfaction and lower depression (for neutral acceptance)
- Poorer well-being and greater suffering (for escape acceptance, which is associated with suicidality and despair)
Integrating the Levels: A Comprehensive View
The levels framework presented throughout this course demonstrates that death cannot be understood from any single perspective. Each level of analysis – from the biological to the individual – contributes essential dimensions to our understanding:
| Level | Key Insight |
|---|---|
| Animate | Death is a biological universal; grief-like responses exist across species |
| Species | Humans are uniquely burdened and enriched by symbolic death awareness |
| Human | Terror management mechanisms shape much of human culture and behavior |
| Historical/Cultural | Death meanings are historically and culturally constructed, not universal |
| Medical | Medicalization has both extended life and transformed (sometimes distorted) the dying experience |
| Legal | Legal frameworks define, regulate, and contest the boundaries of death |
| Religious | Faith traditions provide powerful (but variable) meaning-making resources |
| Arts/Media | Creative expression and media shape how death is imagined, processed, and communicated |
| Political | Death is embedded in power, memory, and political mobilization |
| Relational | Grief is a social and systemic experience, not merely individual |
| Individual (Developmental) | Death understanding evolves across the lifespan |
| Individual (Personality) | Personality shapes the qualitative experience of death anxiety and acceptance |
The psychology of death and dying is, in the end, a microcosm of psychology itself: it touches every dimension of human experience – cognitive, emotional, social, cultural, developmental, and biological. Understanding death means understanding what it means to be human.